I'm a 15 year old girl who needs sexual advice, please help.?

I started masturbating at 13 and now i started recently watching porn. I like the feelings i get when i do this, but i can't help but feel that porn has ruined sex for me. All my life i was raised into believing sex was an act of love and something very special, but after watching porn all i can think of when sex comes to mind is how dirty it is. Why is this? And is there a way to get my old opinion back on sex?I'm a 15 year old girl who needs sexual advice, please help.?
The answer is simple.





Sex is beautiful...porn is dirty.








Porn stars do it for the money.They don't do it for the love so naturally, it would lack that love/positive energy.





When you are in a committed relationship with someone and start to have sexual relations, you will more than likely not feel like the act is dirty.








I suggest you stop watching porn.A. Because you are not old enough (Pornography stars and views must be 18 years of age...and you can get into trouble with police if somehow you are caught) and B. It is apparent that it isn't doing anything good for your perception of sex.I'm a 15 year old girl who needs sexual advice, please help.?
Here's a little secret- porn is not an accurate portrayal of real sex between a man and woman who actually love each other. I think you need to stop watching porn first off and worry more about doing well in school and in life before getting too worked up about sex. When you are old enough you will meet someone who will care about you and you will care about them and the desire to be with them will be all you need.
Porn is supposed to be adult entertainment. you are not an adult yet so you should not be watching it. Not everything is for everybody. You can read a novel and love it, yet another person reads it and hates it.





One important thing to note that porn is again entertainment and is not to be taken literaly. Is the same as any other movie you see. You see, a person can't really out run a explosion or get shot and then walk like nothing happened. Or a person cannot take on 20 guys without being touched once. Its just a movie. Porn is just the same. Is an exageration of the truth. Is fantasy put into film. If you think pron is harming and it probably is at such a young age then stop. Over time you will heal.





Here are two link in youtube that talk about porn from the psychological point of view. I recommend you watch them as it is very educational. It will clear a lot of your questions and concern.








1) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hkd4Cjm_r鈥?/a>


2) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9VvJ327p6鈥?/a>
stop watching the porn. sex is a beautiful thing between a husband and wife and things like porn cheapen it and make it seem disgusting. also it creates a dramatic feeling. with the background music and settings. stop watching it.
porn is about money, the $$$, thats it. they are faking it anyway. its not special. find someone you love, and make sure they love you back.
stop watching porn, it's about as far from real life as it gets.
fall in love.
it will all work out wen u find someone u love
the sole purpose of porn is to get people aroused and feeling ';turned on';. it's purely sexual, it's not about love. sex is absolutely an act of love and is very special, in my opinion. but, sex can also be solely for ';getting off'; and for the sex itself and have nothing to do with love. it depends what your morals and values are, and who the person you're having sex with is. is it your boyfriend? or is it a guy you hooked up with drunk at a party? it makes all the difference. however you look at it, know that porn is tottally unrealistic and is not what you should look up to in terms of your attitude towards sex.