Would you date a 19 y/o who's nice, and respectful, he's super cute, and no he's not a jerk (used to be fat when he was young) and is still a virgin had the chance to loose it but is still (Waiting for that special girl) has a good job, and owns a Ferrari F430?
I got girls trying to date me, but the only problem is after the weight loss i've got excess skin on me this is what's got me feeling down would this be a problem to you women?Help women only i need your advice please help?
Most people, if they really like someone, and find that person attractive in other ways learn to overlook certain ';flaws.';
Since you are so young and you claim to have so much excess skin (enough to bring down your self-esteem)--then you probably lost weight really quickly. The youthful elasticity of your skin will eventually kick and catch up. You should also consider exercising--weight-lifting to fill out muscles (and skin). If you can, see a doctor and ask for advice on who to see about maybe surgery if it is that extreme.
If you meet a girl who seems to be really special, get to know her as friends first. Try to hold back on dating behavior, but go out ';as friends.'; Catch a movie, get some pizza, hang out at the park and play frisbee or go to a local activity--like bowling, a local stock-car race, a live music show, a rodeo, a carnival, putt-putt(mini-golf), go-kart racing, an amusement park...anywhere cool. Get to know her on a friendship basis. If she flirts with you, then you can realistically and honestly open up to her about your concern. She might like you so much she just won't care. If it ';grosses her out'; --and it might-- then you'll have a friend, but not a lover. It will not be wasted time. But you can try hanging out with another girl until you find the right one. You can hang out at different times with more than one girl. Don't allow one to have too much hold on your time or Ferrari--keep yourself available, but DO NOT allow yourself to be used. And don't be in a rush. Seriously, you're only 19. Be prepared that it may take a few years to get to that special person. Once you find her you'll realize you wouldn't have had it any other way...and by then your skin will have tightened up some, too.Help women only i need your advice please help?
Yes, I would date you. I decided that before I read about the Ferrari BTW. You have a lot going for you, try to feel good about yourself.
hahaha you sound like a dick. Gross excess skin btw, if you're only 19 going to the gym should be able to sort that out
it wouldn't be a problem to me..
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