I Know this is really bad but please help any advice will do?

me and my best friend have fallen out because i kinda kissed her ex that she still liked but i only kissed him to make my ex jelouse and i feel really bad about it and i dont want to lose her i really do love her shes been my best friend for 8 years what do i say to her ?I Know this is really bad but please help any advice will do?
tbh it'll all pass just wait a few more days and im sure ull start talking again


no matter how much u apologise you've already done it and if you are the best friends you say you are then she'll forgive you as boys shouldn't get in the way of a friendship if its genuineI Know this is really bad but please help any advice will do?
well tbh if you still like your ex which it seems like you do , think of what it would be like if she kissed your ex to make her ex jealous , surely you'd feel angry right? this is exactly what she is feeling at the moment whether or not you want to get your ex back , kissing the guy that your BEST MATE likes is hardly being a best friend wouldnt you say? especially if that is her ex and there is a good chance of getting him back for her , which if you kissed him you mighta confused his feelings and swayed him towards you , at this very moment your best friend is going to feel betrayed angry hurt jealous and alot of other things and will need sometime , talk to her if you cant wait but dont expect her to welcome you back with open arms , cause what you did what really hurtful and to be honest rather selfish but every makes mistakes and as long as you promise youve learnt and arent going to do it again , you should be fine depending on how strong your relationship was before
Just say what you did here.





Tell her you don't want to lose her as a friend and explain why you did it.





It can seem exciting and fun to play games with boys, but it always ends up with trouble for you :(





Most guys can see through the jealousy thing. The best way to get back at your ex is to let him see you're happy in your own right, whether you have another bf or not. That way, he will know you've moved on and aren't constantly thinking about him.





So show him he's not the be-all-and-end-all by concentrating on yourself, not him. Girl power!





All the best.
tell her your sorry and wait for her to forgive you. it might take time but if you are truely best friends she'll find it in her heart to forgive you one day. me and my best friend met when we were about 3 and have been best friends for 26 years. we've had our falling outs its only natural no ones perfect, but we forgive each other in the end as thats what friends do. just hang in there and let her know how sorry you are and tell her you'll never do it again. at the end of the day you knew how she felt for this boy and you shouldn't of done it but mistakes happen thats how we learn and i guess by this you'll never do it again. just ask her if this one mistake you've made really worth destroying 8 years of freindship over and remember boys will come and go throughout your life but best friends are there forever and when push comes to shove you'll always need your friends more as there always there for you no matter what and i hope she finds it in her heart to forgive you but give her time as it might take a while





i hope it works out for you both x
She is probably upset because it has not been long since they broke up. Also, if you and your ex broke up you shouldn't try to jump into a relationship with her. You need to apologize to your friend and give her a little space. It may take a little while before you gain her trust back.
Go up to her and apologize! Maybe you can write her or email her. If she knows the reason, then she should forgive you.:)
Tell her you were wrong to use her ex like that, say your sorry, and tell her how much you value their friendship. Good luck
Beg?